Join SDLEO Wives

Membership Application

Thank you for your interest in joining SDLEO Wives! We look forward to welcoming you soon. Before you complete the below membership application, please read the group’s Mission Statement and Oath of Membership. Also, the application will require you to enter your spouse’s employee identification number and number of years on, so you’ll want to have that information handy!

SDLEO Wives Mission Statement

Creating a safe place for San Diego County law enforcement officer wives to support their spouses and one another

Oath of Membership

San Diego Law Enforcement Officer Wives is for ALL of us. This group was designed to provide support and serve the women & families who are married to the LEO lifestyle.

We aspire to encourage and support each other in life, work, marriage & relationships, raising our kids, and much more. This group was formed by San Diego law enforcement wives with the intentions and standards for leadership, resources, guidance, and bonds of friendship that can endure the changes that come with being married to an officer of the law:

  • Support

  • Giving

  • Kindness

  • Friendship

  • Strength

  • Survival & the Opportunity to Thrive


Our core principles:

  • We are dedicated to the success and advancement of San Diego law enforcement wives in their roles as the supporters, encouragers, and “hidden partners” of our law enforcement spouses.
  • In these collective and individual roles, both in public and private, we promise to honor and respect one another above all else.
  • We will be honest and virtuous in all dealings with each other, the wider community, and any person or organization with which we come in contact as representatives of SDLEO Wives.
  • We promise to exercise compassion, empathy, and love in all things and to seek out opportunities to serve one another and any party in need of love and support.
  • We affirm that cooperation and collaboration bring a higher caliber of success, and we thereby pledge to work together, unified in order, to achieve the objectives of SDLEO Wives.
  • We strive to dedicate our time, talents, and treasures as appropriate to further the efforts of SDLEO Wives.
  • We will not knowingly bring dishonor or negative attention to our spouses, our organization, or any affiliates.
  • We promise to honor and respect the sanctity of the organization by keeping internal matters private and maintaining a strict standard of confidentiality.
  • We will always lead with love and seek out opportunities to serve our members in keeping with the objectives of the SDLEO Wives mission.

Membership Application

Your privacy is very important to us. The information on this form will only be used for enrollment purposes by our VP of Membership. Please contact membership@sdleowives.org with questions or concerns.

When you submit your application, you will be prompted to complete a payment. Please note this $25 charge will appear as “mjohnson.sdleowives@gmail.com” on your bank statement.

If your spouse has reached retirement or end of watch, please indicate total years served.
We request addresses so we can plan events at locations convenient to our members.
In the event your family is affected by a critical incident, this information is helpful for our Critical Care team to know.